Being a stepmother was something I never thought I would be.  People in my home country frown upon falling in love and marrying a man who has children.  It was a big deal! You become the topic of gossips, and the whole clan condemns you! So, no, I never thought of being one.  I never even considered being one. FIRST MEETING I met my now husband through common friends. He is a divorcee. He is a decent man, very respectful, responsible, and yes, very much a father to two teenage daughters.  At first, I was not too impressed with him.  Our first meeting was a disaster.  He arrived two hours…